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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 00:30

How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Can you write a letter to your first love without mentioning his/her name?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can you imagine how nervous Kamala Harris must be knowing that in couple of hours she needs to face master debater Donald Trump?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do you enjoy cheating on your spouse? If so, why?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Ask yourself:

What is the most inappropriate experience you have had with a friend's daughter?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why are white men so obsessed with Asian women? I'm friends with people from all different backgrounds but I never see my other non-white male friends obsess over or talk about Asian women like I've seen the white ones do.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?